Sometimes a dog comes into your life and changes things, either for the better or worse. Whatever it may be, we have to learn to cope, adapt, and manage. Rehoming in some cases is simply irresponsible and that is why Zeus is still here, rehoming him would have made our life so much easier but as he is my responsibility keeping him safe is paramount.
I guess I've been lucky over the years, there have been very few that have pushed the buttons too far. We all laugh now about Tali and her "Feck off" attitude, but in all honesty, she was never that difficult. I just wasn't used to a dog who did things in her time and not mine. She was a trustworthy girl with a lovely character, she was very confident in her own skin and just not needy.
I think the most difficult female I've ever had was Jezi. There were times when I would have paid someone to take her away. She didn't particularly like people beyond her family, though to be fair she showed aloofness and not aggression, She was a nasty piece of work when it came to other dogs, particularly bitches. You may recall her absolute hatred of her sister Danni, who was Steve's pride and joy. Both sisters were never meant to stay, but Danni, who was a darling, had to be rehomed as Jezi could well have been a liability in the wrong hands. I tried to show her, her colour was not her fortune, but she was nicely constructed with nice movement, but her unpredicable character outside the ring made it impossible to relax in her company. Of course, I didn't breed from her either! Managing Jezi wasn't easy, she couldn't be doubled up with any of the other bitches, but then a lovely, lovely dog called Nico joined the Blanik clan and his influence made her a better person. Nico was beautiful dog, a kind soul with an ideal character.
Well I guess since we are talking about the difficult ones you know where I'm going next. "The Beautiful One" is easily the most difficult, unpredictable male I've ever owned. We manage him, we cope with him, and yeah we love him, but there is no doubt he can be a fecking knob. I think a huge part of the problem is that he's so bright, ridiculously clever, but as I've said numerous times, he has no interest in pleasing anyone but himself. Our ups and downs with him have been well documented and there is no doubt that spending more time with his mother has really improved managing him day to day, but I worry, she's not getting old, she may not know it but Sammi is old. What the hell will I do when the inevitable happens, or she becomes too old to be his buddy as well as his mother? I have tried him with Meerah, on a walk, it's great, but not in the house. He's too OTT with her and, as yet she's not been brave enough to tell him to bog off!
A lot of the dog simply become part of the family, all special in their own right, they are generally easy ones, loveable and wonderful, but they don't necessarily stand out from the crowd like some of the others.(for the wrong or right reasons) I guess Siska and Meerah currently fit that category. They don't tend to give me any hassle, I adore them and they are family ... and then there are the ones who shine so brightly, not necessarily the big show winners, or the big personalities, just the ones who stand out more for one reason or another. Going back to the beginning, of course Blade, then Seffe, Louis, Mikey, Nico, Sammi, Kaiah, Orin and Beti. Coincidently, Nico was Sammi dad, and then you have her, both her kids and her granddaughter.
Beti came here when I was in a very vulnerable place. The losses of 2022 had been absolutely devastating, but to go on then and lose Kaiah in 2023 almost took me over the edge. Beti helped heal the wounds, she distracted me from the sadness that was engulfing me, maybe that's why I've bonded so much with her. There is no doubt she's a star, bursting with energy and fun, but full of love and affection for me and her human friends. Like her father and grandmother, for me Beti always shines brightly, maybe my vulnerable state in 2023 made our bond deeper, or maybe it's just who she is that fills my heart. On saying that though, not everyone in this house is as impressed with her bubbly nature and exuberance as I am!!
















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